Tolulope Oniru-Demuren sat with Betty Irabor on the latest episode of Life Lessons and she shared details about losing her child that she had kept private.
The new season of Life Lessons with Betty Irabor kicks off with the popular OAP who was recently appointed Programs Director for Beat FM. In this episode, Toolz shared her tragic experience. She also spoke about the disbelief and agony she endured as well as her journey to recovery.
The mum-of-one disclosed that she got pregnant a few months after her wedding and she began looking forward to having a baby. However, as the pregnancy approached 6 months, she noticed she had never felt any movement.
She said the hospital here in Nigeria missed a few things and didn’t pick up on the problem in time.
She eventually travelled to the UK and a scan showed that her baby was too small and may not survive.
“I never once thought that the health of my child would be an issue,” Toolz said.
The doctors kept conducting more scans and tried what they could but a final scan showed the baby was no longer moving and she was told she’ll have to push the baby out.
At the final scan, she said she had some sort of “spiritual awakening”.
She said:
“I heard a voice saying ‘this isn’t going to work out but you’re going to be OK’.”
“That was horrible, the day that I did the scan and there was just like nothing. When we did the last scan, there was nothing, like, no movement, nothing.
Oh my gosh, it was horrible, it was absolutely horrible.”
She said she was told that she’ll be given some medications and will come back after three days to push the baby out. The medications were given to her on Thursday and she was told to come back on Sunday. However, she went into labour on Saturday.
She recalled preparing breakfast on that fateful Saturday when she felt pain and went to the bathroom.
She said:
“From there, the pain went from two to twelve. And I remember screaming… I was in so much pain and that’s when I realized that gosh, I’m in labour.
I was in labour for about 6 or 7 hours…
It was very very traumatic. I try not to think about it too much.
I think one of the worst moments after that… of course this was in the UK, they had to do like an autopsy, I had to arrange a funeral. It was horrible.
That whole time, I was just like, ‘Yeah, God, I’m done’. I’m like ‘come and take me, I’m gone’.”
The OAP went on to speak about her journey to recovery and how she was blessed with a handsome son afterwards.
Life Lessons with Betty Irabor is brought to you by Linda Ikeji TV. The show was directed by Ruyi Irabor and produced by Toyosi Etim-Effiong.
New episodes will be released every Tuesday on Linda Ikeji TV and other select online platforms. Life Lessons is sponsored by Nescafé and Maggi.
Singer Burna Boy has called for justice for victims of police brutality and also rape across the world.
The singer stated this as the world took to social media with the hashtag #blacktuesday.
Uwaila Omozuwa, a 100 level student of Microbiology at the University of Benin was raped and bashed with a fire extinguisher in the head leading to her death.
This sparked outraged from Nigerians who demanded justice for the lady and others of her kind.
Lending his voice, Burna Boy wrote: “Rape and racial injustice are crimes against humanity, they are vicious, insidious and violent acts that no human should commit or commend.
“The stance on rape should be linear and final, there should be no grey areas, no “buts”, only that the perpetrator(s) of the act is to blame and the victim completely blameless.
From now on, men and women alike need to be educated. Men need to be taught the concept of consent, we need to teach them empathy and compassion. We need to teach men that a woman’s body is hers and hers alone. We need to end stigmatisation and victimization of rape victims, it must STOP.
Black people deserve and require more than we’re currently getting! I implore you all to get involved, no contribution is too small, no platform is too small #nojusticenopeace #justiceforgeorgefloyd #justiceforuwa #stoprapeculture #justicefortina #stoppolicebrutality #blackouttuesday.”
Few hours ago, the news about Davido’s new apartment in Banana Island
Lagos shook the internet. The full video of the luxurious house has
finally surfaced on the internet and it is obviously enough to be
someone’s dream house.
Although it is not clear how much the new crib costs, but reports has
it that the value of properties in the extremely exclusive area in
Lagos cost multiple millions of Naira. The mansion is said to have an
elevator and it also has modern household utilities in it. According to
the father of 3, the house is his dream house.
Area Boi records artist, Trevboi
presents us with a hot and spanking new single and we’re excited for
this lovely new effort tagged “Who Dey”, and this is the remix as he featured Davido.
The brand new single serves us with a very sweet and interesting vibe
and we totally love the energy, rhythm and vibe this new single
presents to us.
Download and Enjoy Trevboi – Who Dey (Remix) Ft. Davido below;
Pastor Enoch Adeboye of the Redeemed Christian Church of God RCCG, says lots of babies will be made as a result of the COVID-19 lockdown.
The clergyman said this in his sermon on Sunday morning while listing
some of the good things that will come out from the COVID-19 lockdown.
According to him, Pastors will be so busy early next year conducting
baby naming ceremonies.
Popular Nigerian singer Tiwa Savage has reacted to the death of 16-year-old Tina who was murdered by a trigger-happy policeman.
Taking to her IG page, the mom of one shared a photo of the deceased
and slammed the many atrocities caused by the men in force in the
country.
”Over the seas and right on our doorstep, there is so much evil in
the World … kaduna killings, SARZ brutality, black lives matter, so many
of us dying. So many that we don’t even hear about because they don’t
have a hashtag. Today has been a horrible day.”
Special Adviser on Media to Oyo State House of Assembly Speaker, Rt. Hon Adebo Ogundoyin, Ojebola Matthew Opeoluwa publicly claimed that the administration benefits of the Oyo State Governor, Seyi Makinde are not for the party (PDP) members alone.
Ojebola on a Tv program tagged "Political Match" by Ojoko Online Tv revealed this while talking about Governor Seyi Makinde's COVID-19 palliative activities, as he claimed that the palliative are not for the party members alone but for each and every citizens of the state.
According to Ojebola in his words while asked about the state government's efforts in reduction of the citizens sufferness from COVID-19, says;
"The effort of the government can be seen in the palliative activities that the government are doing, regardless of the soften of the lockdown, the Governor himself came to Ibarapa zone to launch a palliative activities for people where it was given to 120 poorest of the poor."
Speaking further, Ojebola made it clear that the COVID-19 palliative are not benefited by the ruling party members alone but are randomly distributed to the poor citizens of the state.
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"The most magnanimous and the act of generosity which beats everyone's imagination is when the governor declared that the palliatives are not meant for the PDP party members alone. And as we can all see that was what we did.
Imagine a palliative activities done by a government of the state where there was no PDP logo, no umbrella, no scarf, no broom etc. So, this is to show that everybody is an indigen of Oyo State."
Popular Nigerian rapper and former KOGA Entertainment Act, ZAYO today shares a throwback photo of himself standing in a Club with fast rising Nigerian musician, KASSA.
Zayo who is known with his dope musics today shared the photo on his social media handle while revealing a deep story about their journey back then. He posted the photo and captioned it;
"TB.. Pelu Kassa.. Na beg and settlement we Dey take do am before dem allow Him enter Club that year😅😂."
Nollywood actress Moyo Lawal
recently left social media users amused after she took to the platform
to share a photo of herself looking rather hilarious with a poorly done
makeup on.
People meeting their prospective mothers-in-law often go above and
beyond to create a good first impression. This is why many people were
thrown into laughter when Lawal revealed she was visiting her
mother-in-law with the loud makeup on.
Obviously making a joke about the look, she revealed her supposed
fiance’s ex made her up and she did a good job. She went on to say
people who found the makeup hideous were only jealous because they are
single.
Things are no doubt quite tough in the world at the moment due to the
coronavirus pandemic which has led to a reduced standard of living for
most people.
There have been cries of hunger and discomfort among people who are
unable to have a source of income during the pandemic and one video in
particular has touched the hearts of many.
A video recently made the rounds on social media showing an old woman crying out about hunger as a result of the pandemic.
The woman said that she had no child to take care of her and that
relatives who could have done that are social distancing.The video
gained the attention of popular businessman and socialite, E-Money. He asked for details on how to locate the woman and he was eventually successful.
E-Money
shared screenshots on his Instagram page showing moments of him with
the old woman on a video call to the joy of fans on social media.
He also thanked God for being able to locate her as he prayed to the almighty to protect and keep her.
E-money also gifted the old woman the sum of N500k.
Ibironke Ojo-Anthony, popularly known as Ronke Osodi-Oke
needs no further introduction when it comes to entertainment in
Nigeria. We have watched her in many Nigerian movies, mostly Yoruba
movies and is known to play very unique roles.
Following her long break off the social media scene, the Nollywood
actress, has undergone a total reinvention of her public persona. This
is evident in the new photos she shared on her Instagram.
Ronke became a household name in the year 2000 when she featured in a
movie titled “Oshodi Oke“, from which she got her stage name.
Operatives of the Inspector General Police (IG) Monitoring Unit on Thursday arrested popular cross-dresser, Idris Okuneye alias Bobrisky.
Okuneye was arrested around Lekki by a team of policemen from Abuja over alleged money issues with a woman.
The Nation reports that this arrest is coming months after the
cross-dresser was detained by the police over his disagreement with an
Abuja public official.
Although details of the case were sketchy, it was gathered that the
policemen who entered Okuneye’s white Sport Utility Vehicle (SUV) had
made their mission known to the Lagos State police command before
proceeding.
Bobrisky recently had an altarcation with a Nigerian woman in diaspora over sales and sponsorship for an artificial eyelash brand.
Policemen first took Okuneye to a police station on the island where
he was reportedly detained for a while and later granted bail.
Force spokesman DCP Frank Mba said, “Yes, Bobrisky
was arrested in the early hours of today following a petition by a
Nigerian woman that the cross-dresser collected N30m from her for sales
but did not keep to the end of the deal.”
